John Lack · Trauma-informed and NARM®-informed

Coaching for the way you relate.

I support individuals and couples in understanding and transforming the patterns that shape how they relate to themselves, to each other and to change.

Online · Individual & couples coaching · Free 20-minute clarity call
John Lack, relationship coach
Something keeps repeating

You may understand a lot, but familiar patterns still take over.

The same conflict keeps returning
Needs or boundaries are difficult to express
You struggle to trust yourself and your own choices
Self-criticism or shame prevent you from being fully yourself
Stress and inner restlessness never stop
Client experiences

What people say about working with me.

John Lack listening during a coaching conversation
How I work

How we relate matters.

My work is trauma-informed, relational and present-focused. Rather than trying to change your behaviour, we become curious about what might be getting in the way of how you want to live and express yourself, and what might become possible when you feel more choice within.

NARM® is one of the main approaches that informs my work.

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About John

Coach, author and facilitator.

I have worked with individuals, groups and organisations around relationships, communication, conflict and change. My current work brings together NARM®-informed practice, systemic coaching, embodiment and nonviolent communication.

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Collaborations
John Lack
My books

Exploring ways of relating.

Through practical insights and exercises, my books can support you in building a healthier relationship with yourself, navigating transitions with your partner, and helping children develop fundamental relational skills.

FAQs

A few practical questions.

How is this different from traditional talk therapy?

NARM® differs from traditional talk therapy primarily through its holistic approach. It works not only with what someone thinks or talks about, but also with what is happening in the body, such as tension, breathing and posture. Rather than focusing mainly on the past, it explores what is showing up in the present moment. NARM does not centre on behavioural change, but on exploring what might be getting in the way of how you want to live and express yourself.

Are sessions online?

Yes. All individual, couples and separation sessions currently take place online via Zoom.

How much does coaching cost?

I use an income-based sliding scale. Individual 60-minute sessions currently range from €90 to €160 per session, and couples 90-minute sessions from €150 to €220, depending on income and package size. View all fees.

Is your work psychotherapy?

No. My services are coaching and do not constitute psychotherapy or medical treatment. They are not a substitute for medical, psychiatric or psychotherapeutic diagnosis or treatment.

What happens in the free clarity call?

We meet for 20 minutes, explore what brings you here, answer practical questions and see whether working together feels like a good fit.

A first conversation

See whether working together feels right.

The free 20-minute clarity call is a simple way to meet, ask questions and explore which kind of support may fit.

Online · 20 minutes · No commitment
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